What are the essential rules of meditation?

Written by
Robert Kelly
Reviewed by
Prof. Benjamin Murphy, Ph.D.Comprehending the basics of meditation helps to cultivate a successful practice. Important guidelines address a state of mind and practical experiences in "doing," rather than hard rules to follow. The ultimate aim is to have principles that make it easy and sustainable to develop habits that can fit your daily realities and
Your consistency is more valuable than session quality. Practicing regularly for two minutes creates a stronger habit than meditating for an hour at rare intervals. I would rather practice two minutes daily, rather than hope for ideal conditions to meditate for a longer period. This approach leads to lasting and effective results.
Accept thoughts and distractions without attachments or judgments. Similar to watching clouds float by, note when thoughts have appeared, yet return to your practice instruction. This non-reactive awareness supports the emotion regulation skills we'll be exercising.
Select forms that support comfort and spinal alignment. Chairs upright are more effective than attempting to sit on the floor, which creates pain, change forms each week, based on physical requirements. When comfort is achieved, longer, consistent practice is possible.
Mindset Foundations
- Non-judgmental observation of experiences
- Patience with gradual progress over weeks
- Self-compassion during challenging sessions
Practical Guidelines
- Regular timing creates habit strength
- Quiet environments reduce distractions
- Gentle refocusing builds attention muscles
Progression Steps
- Begin with guided audio instructions
- Transition to silent practice gradually
- Extend duration only when comfortable
Transition from guided to independent practice gradually. Reduce the audio volume by ten percent each week. Alternate between guided and silent sessions on alternate days. This naturally builds confidence in self-directed meditation.
Apply these rules flexibly during schedule disruptions. Honor two-minute minimums during busy periods. Modify postures during travel. Flexibility prevents all-or-nothing thinking that breaks consistency.
Read the full article: How to Meditate Daily: 10 Essential Steps